just be your self then everybody going to like you. there lots of people like you but just be yourself.

You will need to reach out to somebody who is knowledgeable ample to aid you. Start with your parents if you're living at home. You CANNOT handle this by yourself. If your parents will not take action, there are hotlines you could call or go to a hospital and ask them to talk. If they can't aid you, they should refer you to someone who can.



Know that there are people who care. You have at least one that does. Me.

I think many of people at 14 go via the same feelings (I did), but trust me, as you gain maturity you'll commence to feel more confident and spend your time with people who share your values. It's unachievable to be universally liked and accepted and quite frankly, there are very few people whose opinions really matter. If you could learn to be tolerant, caring, helpful, and supportive, I guarantee you'll make some genuine friends who will respect you and like you regardless of how you look, dress, or speak.

The fact that that you're asking this question displays that you're gaining in self-awareness and on your technique to becoming a wonderful person. Don't worry so much and try to have some fun in your life - you'll obtain where you want to go.

hey love i'm 15 and i have BEEN there. (still am to an extent) i always felt like i was ugly, boring, mean, not worth getting to know, everything bad. i still find myself mean, but i learned to love myself and though i don't think i'm gorgeous, i no longer consider myself ugly. the best bet for you is to give it time. it took me about 2 years to stop caring about what people think of me. to be honest, it alll happened this summer! i just thought, fuck everyone else. i'll just be myself! even if i'm annoying. or boring. or stupid. just stop caring! think of it this way: 10 years from now are you ever going to observe these people again?? then why care so much! are you goign to observe your family in 10 years? hopefully! so take your anger out on your friends!! lol not your family. just give it time, you're going thorugh a rough patch everything would be fine. :]

Most of us blame those close to us for what we percieve to be inadequacies in our own personality. But with the bulk things in life, once we observe the problem, then the solution is not so far away.



In the bulk cases, no one really failed us if they were always doing the best they could for you. And even if they didnt, its wonderful if you know the problem is there. Accepting that we have a problem is a main step in becomming the person we want to be. You have reached that stage. Well done.



But it can be daunting seeing what you want to be from where you feel you are. If you see the person that is outgoing and always appearing to obtain the laughs then note also when the laughs dont come and when the things said are not especially funny....or profound....or even correct.



In these circumstances people will react not to the correctness of the comment but to how they are expected to respond.



At home you know everyone well. You (perhaps) worry less about being wrong in their eyes becasue you know they have faults and weaknesses as well. That allows you to relax and be outgoing. If you screw up then no one worries.



People outside are no different, They ARE more defensive, just like you and the also have a need to feel accepted, just like you.



Some people feel secure by putting others down. If those in their circle agree then it boosts his/her self image and sadly his/her behaviour.



Others with greater self confindence will seek to 'win' others by accepting them. They will look for a persons wonderful points and encourage them. They dont fell threatened by others that might be more funny, intense etc.