dont say, just have positive thoughts....is there a different technique of thinking I should be aiming towards?

ohmygosh!! Are you one of those people who read or watched The Secret? Dude, you should watch it! it's all ABOUT positive thinking...it's like, incredible. Watch it. Watching it has more impact than reading it.



It's so freaky.

No there is not. You have to think positive thoughts. You obtain what you give. Whenever you catch yourself thinking or saying something negative, correct yourself. Make it habit; soon you would be giving and getting postive energy.

Have a couple of can’s or Harden the F**U**K**K up

That's a personal choice. This is more to just let you know that the power of positive thinking works.

All ideas are like boats on the upper layers of ever flowing water in a river.



like the boat is dependent on the movement of water so are our ideas dependent on the type and kind of energy upon which they travel.



The best of the positive energies are those of the spirits of joy, love, and compassion.



The orignal source of all energies are only their associated spirits, and not either the emotions, feeling, thoughts, or actions whch only apparently seem to be giving either joy, love, or compassion to the self.



If any one feels the continuous presence of flow of negative ideas and energies within hs self; without his being able to stop or divert them; then the best he can do is to work difficult to connect his self with those people, places, things, and actions from which positive energies flow in the form of spirits.



There are two very necessary places from where positive energies flow. The first one is the green gardens/parks from where the self can benefit most; supplied however that he is there atleast one hour before sun rise.



The second is any religious place; specially the early morning and evening prayer times.



If in addition, physical actions are also performed; either in the form of exercises in the parks (preferably yoga exercises); or in the form of services of the type of cleaning, praying, offering food, water in the religious places; preferably as a routine and regular duty and service of self by self offered via the medium of prayer and worship of god to god himself; then the best of the advantages can be derived from both the places.



It takes time, but in the long sprint gives the capability of enjoying all the work which the self does; and that is what the world carves for; JOY TO THE SELF.

Simple but true, have positive ideas and they breed the custom of having positive thoughts...

Yes, you could change your energy to positive, and it's easier than you think.



First, every night, before you go to sleep, you will do a 'daily review'. Mentally go thru your day and when you come to an event that you were not happy with, erase it, then replay it again the technique you WISHED it would have gone. You will need to erase and replay 3x for each negative event in the beginning.



What this does is reprograms the subconscious mind to respond in a positive technique without even having to think about it.



The second thing you do is beginning attracting positive energy to you. To do this, you think of, and give thanks for 5 things every day that you're grateful for. Example: I am grateful for my health, I am grateful I have a job, I am grateful I have family that loves me, that I can feel the sun on my face today, that I have brightened someone else's day with a smile, that I was able to aid my neighbor, etc, you obtain the idea.



Being grateful starts the flow of positive energy. You'll beginning to feel happier, you will feel lighter. Try it for a month, then write to me and let me know how things are going for you. I'm willing to bet that you'll be feeling much more positive energy in your life.



Good luck!