Will he ever move on?



Alright I used to date this guy and he ended up being a jerk. And now I've moved on because I realize that I can do better than him but he keeps calling me, texting me and IM-ing me on aim, acting like nothing ever happened. Like he never hurt me. Because I don't trust him or care for him any longer I just ignore him or act very nonchalant towards him. I was hoping that if I acted like I didnt like him or cared for him he'd leave me alone. I don't want to tell him off because I dont observe why I should, I dont really care what he does with his life. But I was wondering if they ever move on. I'm pretty certainly he likes me but it obviously wasnt ample for him to treat me right which is the reason why things are the technique they are.



I already know that he wasnt really that into me. Probably because I never really permitted him to obtain there. Either technique I find him to be very immature. Sometimes i feel like he acts like he's still 16. He's 21. Way too immature for me and I'm 20.

Right now I feel like the reason why he's acting like he is, is because he misses the recognition I use to give him and I feel like I'm the first girl to basically tell him "NO" and I just don't think he's used to that lol. Oh well. First time for everything right. I do care for him but its not ample for me to express it anymore, I've had about ample and I am not about to be one of his little girls that he's perhaps been playing and the bulk likely still is. Like I said I feel like I'm the first girl to not bow to him and now he's trying to observe if he could obtain my recognition but its not working and he gets mad. Would he keep trying or let it go and find someone else to manipulate cuz it certainly in hell aint gonna be me.

You have analyzed the situation very well. You are very bright and insightful.



He is immature, like you said, and is surprised by your response to him. You've become a challenge.



I suspect he will give up shortly and move on. If not, then you will have to speak to him directly in no uncertain terms that all is over. But, I feel it won't come to this. He'll leave you alone soon.